Spice Up Your Sex Life: 10 BDSM and Fetish Toys for Couples

Jun 23, 2023 | BDSM & Fetish

Are you looking to add a little more kink to your sex life? BDSM and fetish toys can be a fun and exciting way to explore new sensations and enhance your sexual experiences. 

But with so many different toys and techniques, it can be overwhelming to know where to start. That’s why we’ve put together a list to help you build your BDSM toy collection and explore new levels of pleasure with your partner. From blindfolds and handcuffs to impact toys and strap-ons, there’s something for everyone on this list. 

So, let’s get started!

1. Blindfolds – Blindfolds are a simple yet effective way to add a little kink to your sex life. They can help to enhance sensation and increase anticipation, making sex more exciting and intense.

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2. Handcuffs – Handcuffs are a classic BDSM toy that can be used to restrain your partner and add an element of power play to your sex life. Make sure to use handcuffs that are designed for sex play and have a quick-release mechanism in case of an emergency.

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3. Nipple Suckers – Nipple suckers can be a great way to explore sensation play and add a little more intensity to your nipple play. They work by creating a vacuum around the nipple, which can enhance sensitivity and provide a pleasurable sensation.

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4. Spanking Paddles – Spanking paddles can be a fun way to explore impact play and add a little pain to your sex life. Look for paddles made from materials like leather or silicone that are designed for sex play.

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5. Ball Gags – Ball gags can be a great way to explore power exchange and control during sex play. They can help to enhance the submissive experience and provide a sense of vulnerability.

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6. Vibrating Cock Rings – Vibrating cock rings can be a great way to enhance sensation during sex and add a little kink to your sex life. They can help to increase blood flow to the penis and provide clitoral stimulation for your partner.

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7. Butt Plugs – Butt plugs can be a great way to explore anal play and add a little more kink to your sex life. They come in various sizes and shapes, from small beginner plugs to larger, more advanced plugs.

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8. Strap-Ons – Strap-ons can be a fun way to explore power exchange and add a little more intensity to your sex life. They can be used for pegging, where the female partner wears the strap-on and penetrates the male partner, or for other types of role play. Make sure to choose a strap-on that fits comfortably and is compatible with the type of harness you choose.

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9. Rope Bondage – Rope bondage can be a fun and creative way to explore BDSM play and add a little more intensity to your sex life. There are many different styles and techniques to try, from simple wrist ties to more complex full-body suspensions.

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  1. Suspension Gear – Suspension gear can be a great way to explore advanced BDSM play and add a little more intensity to your sex life. It allows for the suspension of the submissive partner in mid-air, creating a sense of weightlessness and vulnerability. 

Remember, these toys should only be used with enthusiastic consent from all parties involved. When it comes to introducing BDSM and fetish products into your sex life, make sure to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries before trying anything new.

These are just a few options to get started with. There are many other BDSM and fetish products available, so come by the Love Shack and find what works best for you and your partner.

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